*My little buddy, Flynn, turns 4 in a couple of weeks. So, to commemorate the occasion, I wrote this letter. My hope is simple – one day in the distant future, he will read these words and understand that my love for him was – and remains – boundless. *
Dear Flynn –
Gone are the days of watching PJ Masks. And building castles with your magnet tiles.
You’re a teenager now, which means that life has become infinitely more demanding and complex.
Even though you now have a deep voice and some peach fuzz on your chin, your days as a small child are forever etched into my soul.
Vividly, I remember playing tag by chasing you around the kitchen island. Round and round we went. You never wanted to stop. (even though, we got in trouble for running in the house.)
Fondly, I recall all of the times you said “daddy, you’re my best friend.” And then you’d cuddle up next to me. Those days are beyond precious.
And I will never forget those nights during your infancy when I had the magic touch. I’d cradle you in my arms and sing made-up melodies until you drifted off to sleep.
Since you’re a full-fledged teen now, here’s a bit of wisdom from your old dad. 😊
Be Your Own Man
As a little boy, you were so curious. And I’m sure you still are.
I’ve never been asked so many questions in my life. You wanted to know everything — about everything.
Your inquisitive nature makes me so proud. I know you’ll never succumb to groupthink. Because, you will question so-called norms, and try your best to truly understand the world around you.
Peer pressure will sometimes be relentless and tempting. But, stick to your moral compass and always do what’s right. Even if that means going against the grain. I have confidence that you know, in your heart, what the ‘right’ thing is.
When I say question everything, that doesn’t translate to being disrespectful. I just mean, try your best to read between the lines. Dig deep to find the subtext in every encounter and situation. That’s where people’s true motivations reside.
Do not let anyone dictate how you should live your life. (Except mom and dad, of course — just kidding, kinda).
Being your own man doesn’t equate to being selfish. Far from it. An independent and responsible man always handles his business.
This advice may seem obvious, but based on how the world behaves sometimes, I think these words need to be reiterated and reflected upon throughout life.
Be a Great Brother
As a little boy, you adored your big sister. Following her around and repeating – verbatim – every word out of her mouth was your forte.
One day, you and Sienna may live far from one another. Distance can affect a relationship. But, that’s okay. It just means you guys will both have to work harder at keeping the relationship strong.
I know you’ll do your part in maintaining that special sibling bond.
This world can be a cold place. It’s hard to trust people sometimes. That’s why it is so important for you and your sister to stay close. To trust each other. To rely on one another.
Respect your sister’s life choices and be happy for her. Never be envious, bitter or vengeful. And I’m confident your sister will treat you with the same love, kindness and understanding.
You’re a tenderhearted soul with strong convictions. I know you’ll always look out for your big sister. Because that’s the type of boy you were – and the kind of man you’ve become. 😊
Pursue Happiness
Life is a roller-coaster of experiences, emotions and challenges.
Life can be amazing, annoying, awesome and abysmal. All in one day!
Your existence will be filled with ups, downs, and turn-arounds.
Always remember one thing- life is never static. Change is the only constant. And that goes for both the good, and the bad.
Always appreciate what you have, and never stop striving for love and success. But, please keep in mind, my son, that you should measure success on your own terms.
Above all, choose happiness. When you feel sad, frustrated or stuck, never forget that you were born from love – have been loved – and will always be loved.
How you confront problems is your choice.
And, I am confident that you will choose to smile each day. You will treat others will respect and empathy. But, above all, you will open your heart and allow love to permeate your entire being.
When challenges become seemingly insurmountable, dig inside for that love and remember that life is fleeting. Nothing lasts forever.
And because things always change, you should always approach situations with an open mind and a smile. That smile will help you overcome life’s challenges more than you could ever imagine.
Laugh. A Lot.
Take it from your comedian dad. Laugh all the time. It’s cathartic. It’s natural. And it’s just plain ol’ fun.
Never take yourself too seriously. Or life.
People will be drawn to your positive vibe. Everyone loves to laugh.
Keep being a fun-loving kid, even when you’re all grown-up. Don’t allow the world to temper your sense of humor with their artificial norms and hypocrisies.
Enjoy yourself, man! Dad gives you permission.
I love you, Flynn.
Dad xxxxxx
🙂
Categories: Ideas, Inspiration
Flynn is blessed to have a dad like U.
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Thank you!
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What a beautiful tradition. Happy future birthday to Flynn, and thanks for sharing this piece of his future.
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Thank you so much! Have an awesome weekend. 🙂
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What a wonderful Dad you are, Kevin. Best of luck to you all, stay safe!
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So great to hear from you! Thanks so much. All my best to you and your family. Have a great week! 🙂
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Thank you Kevin. I am afraid I won’t see my family this year 😦
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I’m sorry to hear that, Inese. This pandemic is truly a horrible experience. Let’s hope it ends soon. Be well, my friend.
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A very beautiful letter, Kevin!
Your kids look so happy and healthy! You are a lucky person.
Take care & stay safe.
Resa
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Thanks Resa! Nice to hear from you 🙂 Hope you and yours are doing well. Have a great week!
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Back at ya! 😀
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great pic, Kevin: stay well, stay funny 🙂 the world needs laughs — about time we heard a few corona jokes 🙂 or would that be in very bad taste ???
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Thanks bud! There is always time for jokes – but only if they are funny! That’s the key — it may sound logical and simple – but for a joke to work (especially about a touchy topic), it be better be damn funny! 🙂
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yes, corona jokes could be tricky but they might work if they deal not with the disease itself but the things we have to do because of it , like social distancing — and hey! that gives me an idea 🙂
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What a beautiful letter – so full of hope and encouragement and sound advice.
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Thank you! 🙂
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Hi Kevin, how are you doing… hope you’re all keeping positive and hopeful. Lovely and touching post! Appreciate your visit… take good care. 😀
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Thank you, Iris! Nice to hear from you. Hope you and your loved ones are doing well. 🙂
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Thanks Kevin, all is well here! 😀🌈
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Hi! Nominated you for an award- https://juniorblogs.science.blog/2020/04/03/blogger-recognition-award-memes/
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Thank you!!
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Anytime xD!
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Truly a inspiring read. A hope & wish of every parent for the kids. Thank you. Advance Happy Birthday to your son . Stay say & all the best to your family.
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Thanks, man! I appreciate the kind words. Hope you and your family are safe and healthy. 🙂
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This is beautiful… and filled with such wise advice for your son. You are obviously a wonderful example for the man he will one day become. Wishing good health to you and your lovely family!
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Thank you so much for the kind words! Same to you and your family – happiness and good health!
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Beautiful Kevin and such a special present for your son. Thank you for sharing with us. 🙂
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Thanks, Michele! Hope you and your loved ones are doing well. 🙂
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Beautifully written Kevin. Most parents cannot express the love that they have for their children like you have. You hit all the important points. Stay well. Hugs to your family.
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HI Linda, hope you and Dick are doing well. Thanks so much for the comment, and for the sweet words. I really appreciate it! Be well, and say hi to everyone for me.
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💕Beautiful, and touching, in every single aspect. Your son is adorable and fortunate to have such a loving dad!
Hope you and yours are well.
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Thanks so much! Great to hear from you. 😊 Hope you and your loved ones are doing excellent!
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Hi Kevin….I so enjoyed your post! You are an awesome Dad! Isn’t it amazing how wonderful our children are, and how much they learn from us as parents? I have absolutely no doubt that little Flynn (and Sienna) learn the very best from you and your wife! It sounds like you really know that love…and laughter…really ARE the best things you can have in your heart and in your repartee! Blessings to you and your wonderful family! Angel hugs, Barbara from Sydney xxxxx
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Hey Barbara, thanks so much for your kind words! You are absolutely right. They learn so much from us, and it’s so important we are teaching them the ‘right’ things. I love being a dad. Great to hear from you. Be well, Barbara! 🙂
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Aw, been there, Kev (two young adult kids). Every stage of their lives will be unique, painful and sweet, but your love will always be the same.
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😉 Good to hear from you, Mitch!
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Really special, Kevin … stay safe and inside!
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Thanks Dan! Hope you and your family are doing well!
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Awww this is beautiful and your son (and daughter) are super cute ❤
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Hey Kathy, thanks so much! Great to hear from you. 🙂
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Aww this is so beautiful, Kevin. Your kids are so lucky to have such a kind, smart, funny and loving father. Same goes for Ellen as well of course. Blessed to know you guys.
So sad are plans will go on hold but hope to see you soon. . Stay safe out there.
Much love. Homeyra
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Hey Homeyra, thanks so much! I know, I guess we will have to just wait for our Pink Floyd double date. Once this whole mess is done with, we will get that arranged quickly. Great hearing from you. 🙂
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A wonderful letter! Your children are adorable!
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That’s very sweet of you! Thanks so much! 🙂
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So beautiful to have this letter for your son. Stay safe and healthy.
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Thank you so much! You too – be well! 🙂
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Lovely to read.
Regards Thom
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Thanks man! 😃
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Very sweet! All the best for you and your family! Greetings from Germany 🙂
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Thanks so much! All the best to you and your loved ones! Greetings from California 😉😎
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You’re a wonderful dad… with a wonderful family, Kevin.
Art
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Thanks so much, Art! Very kind of you. 😎
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Lovely!!
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Thanks so much Leyla! Nice to hear from you! 😊
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Beautiful message ❤
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Thank you so much!! (Sorry for the delay in responding, I must have accidentally missed seeing this comment) Hope you are doing well!
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Kevin, you are an amazing dad! Thank you for sharing your letter. I know this will mean so much to Flynn some day! And it’s wonderful advice everyone can use! 😃
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Thank you so much! I appreciate the kind words! Hope all is well. Have a great week! 🙂
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The world needs more fathers such as yourself
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Aww, thanks Barbara! 🙂
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Wonderfully stated, Kevin!
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Thank you so much!! 🙂
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This is amazingly beautiful and touching. Only the love of a parent can see so much further already and does something thoughtful and loving like this letter.
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Hi Erika, great to hear from you! Thanks for your kind words! 🙂 How are you?
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Thank you, Kevin, I am fine. Since my employed job is reduced now due to the Corona crisis, I have more time to catch up with all my other projects like working on my skin care products, herbal products, my new website, hopefully my new book, and my new education… you see, I am not getting borde during home office time… lol! I hope you are all doing good!
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This is wonderful, Kevin, and no doubt the best gift Flynn will have forever. Well done. – Marty
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Thanks so much, Marty! Good hearing from you. Hope you guys are well! 🙂
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I took good time to read your letter to your lovely Flynn, word by word, sentence by sentence. I’m inspired and touched. It’s a precious gift to your little boy, who will soon become a teenager, a man. It’s a treasure in life.
Sending my best wishes to you and your family. Stay safe and take care. 😊
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Hi Isabelle, thanks for your kind words! Hope you and your family are excellent. I can’t wait for all of us to get back to ‘normal.’ Great to hear from you! Be well, Isabelle!
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Such a beautiful thing to do for little Flynny. He will cherish this later in life for sure. Love it!! Thanks for being such a wonderful father and husband. Love you!
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Thanks sweetie! Love you too! 🙂
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That’s so lovely 💖
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Hi Cathy, thank you so much! Hope you and your loved ones are doing excellent 🙂
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We’re all good, thanks 🙂
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Such a beautiful, meaningful gift for your son, Kevin,
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Hi Carol. thank you so much! Hope you are doing excellent!
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Beautiful Kevin
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Thank you so much. Be well, my friend. 🙂
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Wonderfully written 🙂
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Thanks Jen!
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Ahhh… , Kevin, your letter to your son and buddy, Flynn, is wonderful. So filled with love,
fun and wisdom. Above all it will show him how much his father noticed all he did, knew him. To be so deeply known and loved is the biggest gift you can ever give.
That you also remind him to keep his beautiful smile and laugh a lot is important and wise. I totally agree with your sentiment.
Bless
Miriam
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Thank you, Miriam! I hope you are doing great. You are always so kind with your comments. I really appreciate that. Have a wonderful week!
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Very beautifully stated! How wonderful that you were inspired to do this!
Hope things are going well for you and your family in the midst of this craziness Kevin!
Love, katelon
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Thank you, Katelon! That’s very sweet of you to say. Always like hearing from you. Hope you and your loved ones are safe and well! 🙂
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